Do most women want to be sexually dominated?

what is your experience with this issue?

Comment by john on April 23, 2011 at 9:03pm: Oh, I'm familiar. I also write a blog on the topic of being a submissive man: http://submissivemale.blogspot.com

Comment by Scott Storm Carter on April 24, 2011 at 12:06am: I heard that powerful men who like to be dominated by women, well it has something to do wanting to be on the opposite end. Rather than being in charge all the time . Get away from their normal self .

Comment by Scott Storm Carter on April 24, 2011 at 12:18am: One key point is being sexually dominant is completely different than domineering.

Kind of like the difference between guiding a woman and being pushy, only on a larger scale .

Comment by angel macedon on April 24, 2011 at 2:46pm: Yeah Elijah that has been my experience also. Though i suspect many women, even those that do want to be dominated in the bedroom and elsewhere, will have a difficult time admitting to it. Surprise.

Comment by LOUANN BRIZENDINE on April 24, 2011 at 3:35pm: i agree with Scott that: "One key point is being sexually dominant is completely different than domineering" and have found in my years of work with women and sexual issues that wome--and men too--like to be 'surprised' in the bedroom from time to time--it keeps it fresh--and that may mean one partner taking the assertive role on some occassions and the other partner at other times--

Comment by Kaylene Jewell on April 26, 2011 at 7:13pm: As long as we (both men and women in sexual role play) can successfully separate real life from fantasy, then yes, I believe that most wen want to be sexually dominated.

Comment by Kaylene Jewell on April 26, 2011 at 7:18pm: And I know most women (including myself) should check more carefully what they send pior to sending it. oops.

wen = women.

Comment by LOUANN BRIZENDINE on April 26, 2011 at 7:52pm: i agree that 'fantasy domination' is one thing many women think about, but for some who try to implement it in reality, then they don't like it so much!

Comment by Kaylene Jewell on April 26, 2011 at 7:59pm: Sexual domination needs to be kept to a role-play (bedroom, bathroom, kitchen, garage... shall I go on? :)situation and NEVER EVER brought into real life. Then we (ie most women) definitely DO NOT like to be sexually dominated.

Comment by Sharon on May 3, 2011 at 10:16am: So, what I would like to know is how the authors define dominance. Do they mean the man taking control, making the first move, deciding what happens and when? Well, yes – sometimes I like that because I can just relax into it and not have to worry about details. Seriously….how many freakin’ details of work, home life, kids, parents, etc, do women worry about day-to-day? Most women are the primary caretaker on some level and at the end of the day, sometimes you just want someone to take care of you. And apparently men want that sometimes as well, as they have posted here.

If on the other hand they are referring to force, then, absolutely not, unless it’s role play with someone with whom you feel safe. I have dominance fantasies, but, as a previous commenter wrote, it’s my fantasy that I ultimately control. Now there’s an interesting juxtaposition – if you are being dominated in your fantasies, is it really domination if you are ultimately in control of the fantasy? Hmmm….