Tags: dominant, feminism, men, rape, religion, sex, submission, women
I heard that powerful men who like to be dominated by women, well it has something to do wanting to be on the opposite end. Rather than being in charge all the time . Get away from their normal self .
One key point is being sexually dominant is completely different than domineering.
Kind of like the difference between guiding a woman and being pushy, only on a larger scale .
As long as we (both men and women in sexual role play) can successfully separate real life from fantasy, then yes, I believe that most wen want to be sexually dominated.
And I know most women (including myself) should check more carefully what they send pior to sending it. oops.
wen = women.
So, what I would like to know is how the authors define dominance. Do they mean the man taking control, making the first move, deciding what happens and when? Well, yes – sometimes I like that because I can just relax into it and not have to worry about details. Seriously….how many freakin’ details of work, home life, kids, parents, etc, do women worry about day-to-day? Most women are the primary caretaker on some level and at the end of the day, sometimes you just want someone to take care of you. And apparently men want that sometimes as well, as they have posted here.
If on the other hand they are referring to force, then, absolutely not, unless it’s role play with someone with whom you feel safe. I have dominance fantasies, but, as a previous commenter wrote, it’s my fantasy that I ultimately control. Now there’s an interesting juxtaposition – if you are being dominated in your fantasies, is it really domination if you are ultimately in control of the fantasy? Hmmm….
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